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Queening
Essentially when a woman uses a man's head as her throne by sitting on it. This is much more about dominating the man by restricting and controlling his ability to breath than about cunnilingus.

Quickie
It's a swift, passionate sexual act (usually penetrative intercourse) in which the duration isn't as important as the intensity. Often performed in unusual locations and/or fully clothed.
Also see Zipper Sex.

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Relief
The feeling one gets from sexual activity

Rhabdophilia
Being turned on by receiving flagellation. A love of being whipped, flogged, or more usually, caned.

Renifleur
Getting a sexual kick from the smell of urine, public urinals or used underwear.

Retifism
Being highly aroused by shoes. A condition that usually applies to men with regard to women's shoes, but there are shoe shops nationwide that will argue to the contrary!

Reverse Cowgirl
A lovely little sexual position: the woman sits on the man with her back to him whist he penetrates her. His hands are free to tease her breasts and clit, whilst he gets a good look at her arse. She can support her own weight with her hands on her (or his) knees and also has complete control of the pace and rhythm. Try it tonight!

Rimming (aka Analingus)
That's putting your tongue into and around your partner's anus stimulating their other g-spots. This activity is seen as somewhat unsafe without any sexual protection of a dental dam as diseases such as AIDS, hepatitis and giardia are easily spread by this practice.  Other problems such as parasites that live in the lower intestine can cause diseases if relocated to the upper intestine or when ingested by the one licking the anus.

Robotism
Being turned on by robots or the idea of/use of them in sex. Perhaps the thought of giving R2-D2 a seeing to appeals to you?!

Rodeo Sex (aka Buckeroo!)
More myth than reality (we hope!). A man takes a woman from behind and, when passions are high, cries out the name of her best friend (or another woman). The Rodeo comes into it as the man has to see how long he can stay 'riding' without being thrown off! Unpleasant phrases can be used instead of a name. It also works with a woman on top of her man.

Roman Shower
The act of vomiting on a partner, usually after drinking urine.
Also see Sexual Shower.

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Sacofricosis
This is used to describe a sly sexual preference. A man will cut a hole in his trouser pocket so that he can masturbate freely in public with little chance of detection. Not unknown on the London Undergound.

Sadism (Sadist)
The term given to the sex and sexual activities in which the turn on and excitement comes from domination or emotional and/or physical pain. Usually in relation to consensual SM, the word originates from the Marquis de Sade, a French nobleman of some repute due to his twisted and interesting sexual preferences.
Leptosadism: A mild form of sadism
Mastix: A female sadist who is sexually active (unlike the Dominatrix).
Sapphosadism: Lesbian sadism

Satyriasis
Referring to Men who have an uncontrollable urge and desire for sex. So that's every single man in Britain then isn't it?

Scat sex
Not to be confused with Scat music! This is sex in which the faeces of those involved play's a large part in the proceedings. (also see Brown Shower)

Sexual Shower
This is the term used to describe the act of showering a partner with your bodily fluids, or vice versa. Sexual showers have different names depending on your secretion of choice!
Golder Shower: urine shower
Spit Shower: saliva shower
Brown Shower: faeces shower
Roman Shower: vomit shower

Shrimping
An act of mutual arousal for those involved. Though both of you need to really be into the same kind of thing. Shrimping is the act of sucking your partners toes in such a fashion that both of you are turned on by the experience.

Sitophilia
A grand way of describing a food fetish. It's a very common practice, using food in sex play. Popular masturbation and sex aids include: carrots, cucumbers, bananas, corn cobs, sausages, honey, chocolate spread and the classic squirty cream. Some like to use these foods like a dildo, putting them into their anus or vagina. Others enjoy having them rubbed all over their body then licked or nibbled off. So don't eat dinner before sex, because you'll ruin your appetite! On a serious note, if a piece of fruit or vegetable is to be used in masturbation it is very advisable to first place a condom on the item. Unless of course you welcome yeast and fungal infections! 

Split Beaver
A term, usually reserved for pornography, that refers to a close image of a vagina with its lips help apart. The Split Beaver Shot is increasingly popular in British porn as an attempt to be as 'dirty' as possible.

Stuffing
The insertion of objects into the vagina or anus.

Swinging (previously Wife Swapping)
Partner swapping with mutual consent. Swingers attend specialist parties or advertise for like-minded people with the intention of having sex with others outside of their relationship whilst often including their partner.

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Tantra (aka Tantric sex)
With movement and breathing that can be considered similar to Yoga, this is type slow, non-orgasmic sex where you are said to 'become one' with the your partner. Meditation and breathing play an important part as these techniques are used to extent the arousal period and sustaining an erection for a very long time. Complaints have been heard about 'going red raw with friction burns', or 'wishing he'd come already'.

Tea bagging
The act of placing one's scrotum over another's face or mouth

Telephone scatophilia
Being turned on by making or receiving obscene phone calls. You could think of it as Dirty Dialling.

Teratophallic
This is a very posh way of referring to large penises.

Terror Play
As scary as it sounds, this is involving fear in your love making for increased arousal. Most common is using the threat of suffocation or pain, but feel free to try and involve your own phobias. This sometimes manifests itself as a rape fantasy. How about a threesome with a tarantula?

Thalpotentiginy
Being sexually aroused by heat and or warm weather, so when you have that holiday fling, it may be more than the booze!

Three-legged bloomers
These are a rather specialist piece of bondage wear. Underpants with three a third opening so another person can put their head in up to the wearers genitals.

Thlipsosis
Being turned on by pinching other people.

Timophilia
Being aroused and attracted by wealth or status. Perhaps we should move 'Hello!' magazine to the top shelf?!

Tit Torture
Come on! Use your imagination! Oh, alright. This is the application of pain to the nipples. For example: when two clamps are attached to the nipples, then joined together by a cord or chain and are pulled on slowly. To increase the sexual pain/pleasure sensation the user may add weights, use hot wax or pierce the nipples.

Top
Used to describe someone in the SM community who is a dominant person in sexual play, or in the gay world as the bloke who fucks (anal sex) rather than gets fucked.

Trichophilia
Achieving sexual arousal because of hair (pubic or otherwise).

Tripsolagnia
This is a condition that more people may be under than the poor girls at the salon realise. Essentially this is achieving a state of sexual arousal by having your hair shampooed or hair manipulated. Just be sure to leave a good tip when they're done!